thank you both so very much.  you have helped me see that light at the end of the tunnel.  hubby is being tested monday with the 17 OH progesterone and he will find out if he is a carrier.  if he isn’t, then i guess that is the best sign i can hope for.  i worry that his mother and sister both have it but were misdiagnosed with thyroid problems instead since CAH isn’t real well known.  You can’t even find any books on the condition in any bookstore or library.  we’ll be keeping our fingers crossed.  thanks again for helping me out.  i appreciate it more then you’ll ever know.