I agree with Rick only to a certain extent.  I think he was awfully harsh about your decision.  It’s such a delicate matter . . . and it’s different for everyone!!  My daughter is virilized and we HAVE opted to have a reduction done for her.  But that was a hard decision to make.  My opinion is . . . go with what your heart tells you.  Somebody just said it a little while ago on this site . . . (sorry can’t remember who or where) . . . we make the best decisions we can as parents at the time they need to be made with the info we have at the time.  Too bad babies don’t come with instructions, huh??

God Bless you in all of your decisions and coping.

Jess