JanetDGuys,
We need to remember that this board is here for support, not to second guess a decision made by another parent. There is a difference in talking about how YOU made your decisions, and telling (or implying) that someone made a bad decision because it was different from yours.
Another thing to remember, is that even though many of our daughters do have ambiguous genitalia -- they all will look different and we only know what our own daughter looks like.
Just my opinion,
Janet