okay here we go again :o), I had a clitoris reduction at the age of 25. I was not even that bad off, but I can say that I loathed what I had. I’m glad no one tried to do surgery on me way back in the day, because they didn’t know what they were doing. But I did develop a complex and it hurt my self esteem. I felt very masculine, awkward, different. I was never able to change in the girls locker room (still won’t). I had been married for at least 5 years before I could stand naked in front of my husband. (mind you I had already had the surgery done before I got married) This is maybe to controversial for this board, sorry ’bout that.

 This is just me, all I can say is, I am glad it wasn’t bigger than it was. When it comes to this kind of surgery, it’s all good until something goes wrong, and usually when it goes wrong it’s too late if you know what I mean. It is a hard decision to make. I think that if my daughter had been virilized I would have had surgery for her, so she would not not to go through what I did.