I apologize for offending you.  I respect your decision and was only wanting to show that some people even given the newer surgeries still decide to go with waiting, the terminology that you used can clump your arguments and feelings in with the people that have not done the research into the newer types and base their emotions and decisions on surgeries from a long time ago.  I do believe that we each know our own daughters and would do the best we know how for them. . . I am sorry that I angered you, I did not mean to.