Ok so. I’m 18 years old, a female and I think I have CAH but my parents never told me. My clitoris is big. I never really thought much of it because I have never seen a female gentalia. But recently when I was 16 I had sex for the first time and this guy told a lot of people I was big down there.  Totally humiliating. Anyways...I’m embarassed to ask doctors about it and my parents blew me off when I asked them. Changed the subject right away. I’ve been to a Geno and she said I was normal down there, but I’m convinced I’m not... a clitoris shouldnt be so big. This whole subject stresses me out SO much. Can someone PLEASE tell me the exact effects CAH has. And how big should a clitoris be? I know I sound really stupid but I need to know.

Your responses would help

Thanx,

Mary