Dear ME ....... Please do not think that there is anything wrong with you based on what someone said about your body. You can go to the Doctor of your choice and ask them the same questions you are asking us. Keep in mind all peoples ears are not the same size either. I would think if you are CAH you would have had some illness or hospital stays and be on medication. If you feel you are getting blown off by your parents maybe they do not know how to express the answers they need to give you. Maybe......... just get your mother alone and ask her and tell her that you feel you look different and if you are sexually active you would want birth control and  information about safe sex. Most of all remember that if a man loves you......  YOU..... he won’t care what size anything is, because it is your heart and soul he loves the rest is just gravy. Find someone close to confide in and ask questions and ask more questions until YOU feel comfortable with the answers. Be careful about some advice you may get over the net as there are some wolfs disguised as sheep out there. Make sure you read the educational info and not the trash. Hope this helps. I will be on here as much as I can and I have raised a teenage girl and son , so I know the in and outs of both sides. They are now 32 and 34 . I was a very liberal mom and knew most everything they did GOOD and BAD. So if you ever need to talk. Just e-mail me. Cherry