Thank you Danny for using your language skills to get the point across with out stepping on toes. Wish I had the knack for that. I did not mean to stir a pot of unwanted negatives .... I saw something that made me feel uneasy that it went to such a young adult. I try not judge people and don’t know anyone well enough here to be ugly and intentionally mean to them. To much on my plate to get into controversial matches and or debate them. I like this board for what it is and graciously accept any info I get concerning CAH. Maybe because I am a Grandmother my senses seem to be a little more keen second time around. I also thought that NOTHING might be the best way to handle this.  I will refrain from posting anything negative or hateful as I REALLY am not that way. Thanks for your concern and expertise nature of handling this. Cherry