JessicaHi Deet!
My daughter Loghyn was born with ambiguous genitalia. She has SWCAH. She’s 13 mths old now. We’re in the process of testing & stuff for her surgery. I’ve seen many postings regarding adults having surgery . . . we’ve just opted to do it early. I would consult a dr about it. Ask your endo what he/she thinks . . . or your ob/gyn.
As far as being ashamed, you have no reason to be. We are all beautiful & unique in our own ways. God loves variety! :o) And what we don’t like, we can change . . . even if it’s our own attitudes about it that we change.
Please read as much as you can on this page . . . lots of good information and helpful people.
Good luck & God Bless!!
Jess