Natalie AHi, Very interesting website, very honest. You seem like a nice person. I have a daughter who is turning 11 and has swcah. She was diagnosed at birth and was severly verilized. She has a uterus, ovaries and now a not so enlarged clitoris (had a clitoralplasty at 1 yr). She also now has a vaginal canal and a properly functioning urethera (second surgery 2 yrs ago). I have to admit that when I first started to read your site and it said, hi my name is and I am a lesbian I was a bit irritated. I think because I am a bit old fashioned and I suppose thought it was not appropriate for you to refer to your sexual preferences and connect it to cah but....... then I read the entire site where you said something like you feel youd be a lesbian with our without cah like anyone else. I just hate that people blame being gay on a medical condition or the like. Its not that I havent wondered if my daughter will be more on the masculine side and share your preferences someday but I’d rather hope not and here is why... People are mean and life can be challenging enough for a healthy person without cah muchless someone with cah who is also gay. I would however support her either way to mek her life easier which is what a mother daies but I would share my feelings about it with her honestly by saying I dont think its right, then again....its not my choice she would be making. I just hope to keep her healthy, safe, and informed about cah and her life choices. I am glad you made that site, I know it can therapeutic to talk. I beleive I will let my daughter take a peek at parts of your site so she can see what a young adult with cah lives like. Meaning what your life is like. Good luck to you in your weight loss and please keep us informed of your progress.