Margaret, I was interested in your response to this matter.  Perhaps you could help me as well.   I have a young daughter and am considering having another child.  I have posted some questions about taking prenatal treatment in form of dexamethasone and am currently debating whether to take this or not.  my daughter has an enlarged clitoris which is becoming less obvious as she grows.  I have never found it to be a problem and hope that, like you, she will accept it well.  She has not been operated on in infancy but I have been told that she will need some surgery to enlarge the vagina, but probably not for menstruating.  I would have no problem having another daughter like her.  My question though is, that although you did not have surgery have you still had difficulites with sexual relationships?  Do you feel that you have suffered psychologically due to the virilisation? and if prenatal treatment had been available to your mother would you have definately wanted her to take it.  i’m sorry perhaps these questions are too personal and difficult to answer, please don’t worry if you can’t

thankyou joanne