I just stopped taking Dex a short while ago.  From my experience being on it wasn’t all that bad.  I was more nauseas during the period I was weaning off and I also had pretty bad acne around that time, but non of it concerned me too much and at the time it didn’t even occur to me that it had anything to do with the Dex.

My worst experience was with the CVS.  Although it was done by an expert I had serious complications from it.

I think it’s important you know that taking the Dex is in no way a guarantee that the baby, if an affected girl will end up without any virilization what’s-so-ever.  I know of more than one family where the child ended up needing surgery nonetheless.

Good luck with whatever you decide. 

anon