I am sorry if you yook my post the wrong way, but I am in no way using excuses to leave my baby at home. I am a full time mother who cares about her children more than anything, but it is in no way easy to go anywhere with a baby who is always screaming. I choose to leave her at home where she is more calm to benefit her and myself, as I am very stressed as it is. If you wish to make more deragotory comments about me please post them with your real name. At least have the nerve to stand behind your comments instead of cowering behind "anon".Heather