I just posted a message to you but It doesn’t look like it made it.  I have a 4 month old daughter with salt wasting CAH.  I would be more than happy to speak to you over the phone or e-mail.  I was also overwhelmed about would my daughter feel like a girl also.   There is so much I would like to tell you that I know would make things easier for you but I can’t fit them all on this message board.  Let me know if you would like to talk sometime or e-mail?