My husband and I have been married for 3 years now and no pregnancy yet. We are still debating on whether to try a reproductive specialist or just look into adoption. I am worried that even if I am able to get pregnant my body will not be able to handle it. When I even get a cold I am down for three weeks. I go into shock very easily.... faint, vomit, etc. I just don’t really know at this point, and somewhere in my heart I would like a child of our "own".... but I am leaning toward adoption at this point (I think.. LoL)....  Have any of you that are unable to have children naturally considered adoption???? Just because you cannot get pregnant doesn’t mean you "aren’t suppose to be a mother". Sometimes God sends children in other ways.... at any rate... if the baby is meant to be yours it will get to you one way or another.    Just wondering any feelings on that... Take care! amy