MarthaI had an amnio done 6 years ago, as the CVS was new at the time and was not presented as an option. I thought the amnio was not bad at all. You have to wait a really long time for the amnio and the results, I got the results back at 22 weeks or more, that was a long time on the DEX, I found out we were having a boy with CAH. Anyway if I were to do it again I would do the CVS due to the much shorter waiting period.
Good luck to you.