LOL!! Just goes to show that all kids are "one-of-a-kind", and that no matter WHAT approach you take to parenting, it’s just that ... an approach. Nothing is set in stone until you try it out! I can remember having lots of ideas about how I would raise my kids, saying "I’ll do this", or "I’ll never do that" ... what a joke!! You do what you need to do, and keep what works. Good luck with finding a solution that works for ALL of you! ; )