Dear I don’t know what to say other than if it were my child I would want to know .  Mothers can’t be all places at all times and we trust the health professionals with our loved ones. The KEY word here would be communication. Have you thought of asking your Doctor if this is normal. Do you have a Doctor that talks through things with you and answers your questions. Would you discuss this with your Mother? Older Friend/ relative. next time you are exaimined ask the Doctor what he/ she is doing and what are they doing this or that for? if they don’t have a medical answer. Then they are out of line and you are being violated. But , you have to speak up to someone so you don’t continue to become excited and then possibly someday feel guilty about it and be made to feel YOU did something wrong or it is your fault.  Maybe some older CAH patients can help you and tell you what to expect during an examination. My grandaughter is only three and they just look at her. This is all I can tell you. I pray that you get the answers you need and this is on the up and up ! Sincerely Cherry