Thank you for your posts.  I too have been thinking that it would good for both of them to be the same so they had each other to share their experiences.   No questions as to why one had to take medication and not the other etc.  Also my oldest can help her brother with the fear of blood draws which may help her over come it as well.

Obviously many things running through my mind right now.  The most comforting thought is this, My husband and I must have done well the first time around or God won’t have entrusted us with another of his precious gifts.  We are thankful to have another child and to be able to have a boy really completes our family.

Stacy