Aimee,
I understand your post, I just needed to vent b/c I feel like she wants my support in battling cancer, which she totally has & I will continue to support the battle & do what I can. I have gone to the doctors, stayed the night in the hospital while she went under experimental treatment... I just want the same support in return. Asking to much? I know she loves my daughter & we never thought she would be alive to see her so we cherish every moment...but just her attitude when talking made me want to scream "why can’t you be this involved with finding answers to CAH?" I get the "look" or the pressed lips & "Oh" when I mention anything about her condition.

My mother did 1 internet search & found info about ambiguous genitalia & being gay. I have no clue why that has turned her into a tailspin..honestly I have not really touched on that subject with her b/c I just want a happy..healthy....loving child. She & I have our "discussions" about the genital issue (she doesn’t want me to ever tell my daughter) and about how to handle the community & her i.e. she is going to start daycare in the fall...she doesn’t want me to tell them...hello!