Any parent out there with a child who is around our sons age who might be struggling with the teen/adult mind of I don’t have to take my medicine on a daily basis.  As much as we express our concerns & the importance of taking the medication, there are days he just doesnt get it.  There seems to be some issues in his life personally that he is not sharing with us.  Poss girlfriend issues? But he asked me on Saturday to call and make an appt with a doctor, asked hi why? "Just want to make sure everything is alright"  So I did, the problem is our son works 35 hrs thru a temp & has no health benefits, except for a catastrophic plan he pays for himself, but only covers hospitalization. No office or labs.  I made an appt thru a clinic family doctor to address the concerns he might have.  I am just worried that since our son never goes to the doctor except for the endo (& that has been over a year) he moved out of state, never got sick or kept up with seeing a endo for his swcah, has had no labs done in over a year. I am trying to type a note to this doctor explaining the whole thing, since he doesnt want us to go with him I sorry this is so long  the nurse did ask if I could write some brief to explain his condition.  I am also looking into finding a state program to help him get into a endo & have them treat it.  I dont even know what question I am asking.  Having trouble with him trying to be mr independent but not making the right choices. Please keep our family in your prayers. Anyone who has experienced this type of situation please let me know.