Does he have an internet connection?  Maybe have him come to this site & read some of the posts.  Here’s a link also to a memorial page that you might want him to see.  http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Canyon/7906/index.html  My daughter Loghyn is only 18 mths (SWCAH) so we certainly haven’t had to deal with this yet.  My heart & prayers go out to all of your family.

Jess