MarthaI leave, and have left my CAHer’s, with teenagers, as young as 12 years old. Some are good some are not so good. I have boys and girls baby sit. I have never had a problem. We always have a cell phone with us and just say give us a call if you have any problems. They always give their meds, I do ask when we get home.
I do not feel like my kids are any different than any other kids as far as baby sitters go. Even when my kids were babies, I used a 13 year old baby sitter.
Try not to worry so much!