louisehi kara! wow! you ask tough ???s. about your son’s precocious puberty, i unfortunately can’t help you. my son is still an infant, so i am not too up on that. however, i CAN tell you that we just did dna testing and it cost us about $400. i have no idea (nor is it any of my business) what your financial situation is, but it seems like getting your new husband tested might be easier. best of luck!
louise