Julia,

You have MUCH more patience than I do.  Please don’t take what I’m saying the wrong way.  I just couldn’t believe that woman had the call to say those things!  I hate the word freak no matter how it is applied, but especially to our children.  It has no place.  I think I would have told that woman to get bent along time ago no matter who she works for or what her position is in life.  I do understand the delicate nature of your relationship with her.  I just think I would have fired her along time ago if she is that destructive and overbearing.  I hope your husband will find the strength to do the right thing.  In the meantime, keep up the good fight.  Keep insisting she doesn’t come onto your property, etc.  Blessings to you and your family!

Tonia