dolly- i am not a member, but i am now 22 years old and when i was 12 i was dianosed with non classic cah.  i hope and pray daily for children.. but i do have some advice on the hair.  I have waxed for a number of years, and dependin on how severe it is-- it has gotten thinner, finer and even stopped coming back in some places.  but, i have also been on birth control since age 12 in order to regulate the hormones.  however, i have been told that a combination of drugs, premarin and provera can supplement female hormone and still afford you the opportunity to et pregnant.  i actually took those two for a couple years.  check with your doc.. it may be different for you.  best of luck..