I do not have a girl, but I have 2 boys (ages 6 and 8) with SWCAH.  I also live in Raleigh, NC.  My children also go to Duke.  They see Dr. Michael Freemark (Chief of Pediatric Endocrinology).  On occasion, they have seen Dr. Friedman.  I like her alot also.  This is great!! My children were born at Rex Hospital and have been going to Duke ever since they were born and I have never talked to anyone in this area with a CAH child.  E-mail me if you want to talk.