Tonia,  When I read your mail I was truly surprised.  I am from Michigan and my sister-in-law works for the Ionia County Police Dept. .  She had just told me that she had attended a visitation for a police officer from Ohio that was killed.  My sister-in-law works with her brother.  I had to e-mail her and ask her if this was the same officer and low and behold, it was.  It is amazing how small our world truly is.  I will continue my prayers for your family and hers.  (PS. my husband and I have two children, andone more on the way.  Our youngest has SWCAH and so does the soon to be born baby- all boys :) )