You said your son is a carrier I have a question for you.  My daughter Elizabeth which is 1 has CAH that was confirmed at delivery.  I have a son that is 2 we do not know if he is a carrier.  I have ask the endo how would I find out if he is a carrier or could he have the non-classical CAH.  The endo said it would be rare to have one with CAH and Non-Classical CAH do you know if that is true?  The thing that scares me is the endo assured me if he had CAH we would know by now because of adrenal crisis.  From some of the post I have read within the past year of people not finding out their children had CAH until they were sometimes 2 or 3.  Is your carrier son older or younger than your child with CAH?  I hope you don’t mind me asking all these questions but my 2 year old son is very muscular for 2 and some other things about his physical attributes sounds like some things I have read about boys with CAH.  I guess I need to get my other 2 children tested soon!