Amber I feel for you because I want to become pregnant some time this summer.  I have a SWCAH son, and like you I don’t know what to do about the dex.  I am meeting with a new gyno in March and plan on talking it out with her, and get her views on it.  I don’t want the baby to be viralized if I can prevent it, so I probably will take the dex.  My main concerns are the weight gain and anxiety.  Im currently trying to lose some weight before I get pregnant.  I am about 30lbs over weight and I used to be very thin.  The anxiety scares me because I have taken paxil for three years for anxiety, and I’m not talking a little anxiety, I’m talking about constant panic.  I definitly don’t want or need extra panic because I must work and be a wife and a mom to my son.  Good luck, and I will pray all works out well.

Carrie