Seems to me that if we have something to say (post), that there is always a civilized way to do so.  No adults with cah will ever want to post for fear of being blasted or responded to harshly.

 No wonder that many people visit this board and read for years but never post.

 One thing I do agree with is that everyone with cah is a unique individual, and I appreciate the opportunity to read of everyones story. Thank you, Wayne for yours.