I am differnt them most of the messages sent to you, I am a mother of a child with swcah I have chose not to have surgry, But I am very happy you have found peace. I wish you the best. My daughter did have her vaginalplastie and urethra rebuilt labia difused, so she also when threw alot. I’ll never forgett that day, It was 8 hours a very long day waiting hoping everything went well. Everything went great, she’s wonderful even thought she was up the next day playing in the play room, these kids have so much will she was three years old when she had surgry done, my little spitfire, good luck everything will go fine you are in my prayers