Cherry you have such a way with words & thougths.

Danny I know what you are saying but he is 8 yrs old and I have tried to explain his medical condition to him and to let him know that he is normal in every way.  I tell him to control this but................

Thank you every one for taking the time to listen & help me. I know my son is upset that I am raising my grandchildren & I don’t have the time for his children like I should. I’m very protective of my grandson & that makes them all mad!!! He tells me over & over & over. He is very mad at his older brother for what he has done. I think we maybe all needed this 1 monent to let our anger out maybe. It was like a Jerry Springer moment. Cherry you hit it right on the money. I did talk with my grandson in length about it last night and I am definetly going to contact a therapist. 

Thanks again everyone.