I wish, I wish that some research person would pick the anger topic with CAH to study and then but only then will endos then see what some parents and adults w/ CAH already know and some of us found out the hard way.

I’m not saying all people with CAH have this anger and it’s not just the run of the mill anger but rather an over the top anger that can scare people. I’ve read time and again my kid w/ cah is so mild mannered and really a good kid BUT a times this amazing anger comes out BUT the endo says not related to the CAH. Well ok ..whatever but there has to come a time when the studies about Oh...my gosh yes! girls with CAH do play with trucks and conduct studies about anger that would benefit boys and girls w/CAH and help them to navigate life better.  Maybe this only happens to some of us w/ CAH but I’ve read enough about others and know in my own life that there is something to this and then it can be managed in a positive direction.

I have a good heart but this anger has caused problems in my life and the anger isn’t always a negative thing either I remember once when I worked at a resteraunt that we were out of a certain size fish for the customers and we were told to cut the larger one.Well, I through a fit because it really lacked quality to serve a customer something that wasn’t presented properly. I was right in wanted to give the customer the best and after all--- A happy customer= A happy paycheck for me but the other employees thought I was crazy for blowing up and the boss though I was a pain in the neck. All ya do is alienate people ..yeah scare the crap out of them with the anger and hurt yourself.

Therapy was fun but you really have to want not to be like that more than anything in the world and have to learn to let things go and it’s never to early to start and that is easier said than done and to be honest I really never remembered  therapy in a rage but what has got my attention is the fall out from after the happening and was that what I really wanted to happen? nope. The world doesn’t revolve around us. I hope that the little boy learned that when you pick up someone that doesn’t want to be picked up that they pinch and even at eight it’s a good idea to respect another persons bounderies.

Just my two cents,

Aimee