You are all amazing!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for your comments. Cherry your right no one knows but us that it was something we had to do! It is very hard being the grandparent (spoiling them) and then the parent with the discipline. My grandson does not see his dad (my son) or his mom. They are both out there somewhere. I took on the responsiblity because I love my grandchildren and could not bear the thought of them going to a foster home. No one understands. Well, I would have never done that people & family & friends would say that to me. This is your time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well they are not me. Also to Wayne, I really hate to put my grandson on more medicaiton as you suggested. But we are still making the appt. with a counselor.

My son & I talked and he understands somewhat. I had him read this message board and have printed out some material (which I gave all my family members zillions of times) to read.  We are leaving tomorrow to go to Chicago on a train for spring break and I’m also taking my son’s son which is my other grandson. So hopefully we will have peace again!!!!!!!

Happy Easter!!!!!!!!!!!!