MRHi Cindy, I’m sorry you are dealing with the consequences of the rage some of us have posted about in the past. We are definitely in control of our actions and our emotions, your husband should be held accountable just like everyone else. But I do have to tell you that I have been at both ends of the pendulum. As a teen and young adult (not a child) I was very aggressive and angry. I know that it was due to the uncontrolled testosterone levels that surged after puberty and the way I grew up. Then after treatment I was on too much Dex which caused some serious mood swings. I just thought that it was the way I was. Now however, I am on a third of what I used to take and I no longer ride the emotional roller coaster. We can never blame cah for our lack of ability to control ourselves. We have the thought process instinctively but it’s our choice to act on the thought. I used to hate myself for being so mean, that about sums it up.
Perhaps someone should take a closer look at your husbands labwork to make sure he is not under or oversuppressed. As you can see from the board many doctors follow different protocols and mistakes are made. Hope that helps, my dad was pretty rough too, so I feel for ya. Take care