One only has to consider PMT at certain times of the month which many adult woman have so badly that they cannot control their emotions, therefore I do feel it acceptable to blame (a better word attribute)  this intense anger on having CAH, a hormonal imbalance after all.  A young child is often not mature enough to understand how to control this anger and I feel they should of course be guided as Danny says.  I am so tired, as many have said of the problems that so many of people with CAH suffer being ignored by the medical profession and being not attributed to CAH.