Aimee,

Since you don’t have an email link, I am leaving this message for you on these boards.  Your comments in Angel’s link were not only not asked for, they were unnecessary.  She asked for opinions on the surgery being performed on her child, that’s it, nothing else.  She is most likely in enough turmoil and doesn’t need you criticizing her about her child having a disorder that could kill her.  She, I am sure, already realizes that and has most likely dealt with that aspect of this disorder.  Speaking as a new mother, the tone of your messages need some work.  They can be construed as hurtful and condescending.  I am sure this is not how you mean them, but put yourself in the person’s shoes before you go off or save those messages for the controversy page.

Robin