Aimee can’t you take this surgery stuff to the other board, I am sure it will drive new parents away.  Lets not judge - lets unite on this board and help each other - whether or not you believe in God. It is always the same old story, sorry some have had such a hard time, lots of people do without CAH - at least we are alive and getting better care than those in countries not so fortunate.  I am taking a rest ftom this board as I know others have - I can’t see anyone actually agreeing with you - I know your heart is in the right place, happy to continue on the contra board.