Angel, I am a big supporter of waiting, when the surgery is comsetic. What you have described doesn’t sound cosmetic. Just try to take into account what is necessary and what your daughter might want later on. Getting input from adult women with CAH is also a big help, since they can in some ways speak for your daughter. Aimee might sound a little on the wry side sometimes, but she’s a valuable source of information about what girls/women with CAH goes through.