Here’s my humble opinion:  I think sometimes parents get too worried about this stuff.  CAH or not, some of us are late bloomers.  I wasn’t interested in relationships period until I was 22, 23.  Why?  Who knows.  It didn’t mean I was a lesbian.  Yes, I have LOCAH, rather strong LOCAH at that and am steroid-dependent now.  But I also had a lot of trust issues and difficulty with intimacy.  The fact that my parents were convinced I was a lesbian hurt a lot - not because I have anything against homosexuality, but because I felt like they thought I was defective.