WELL SAID, cah or swcah has nothing to do with lesbianism. This day and age there are to many people rushing the kids into having boyfriends and girl friends. They think the worst when their children dont start dating when whe think they should.  These kids start sleeping around earlier and earlier, by the time they turn 21 they are so confused. What happened to "True love waits". Growing up i had alot of male friends and that did not make me a lesbian. I did not sleep arond with any one of them, my family did not think i was a lesbian. I eventually met and four years later married my husband. There is nothing more beautiful than the marriage bed.  CAH has nothing to do with being gay, i think it all comes down to how we were raised.