Remeber lots of kids have problems-  with and without CAH....the CAH is just one part of who these kids are.   My best friend is a child psychologist and she sees plenty of kids that have real problems with or without underlying medical issues.  I agree that having hormones out of whack can cause real issues,  I took DEX for 20 weeks while pregnant (made me feel crazy), but I think what people are saying is that you have the CAH and you just have to do the best you can,  it is never easy raising kids,  even easy kids will do bad things,  that is just part of the deal.

I think as with anything else you can look at it as the glass is 1/2 full or 1/2 empty...anyway just my 2 cents.  I am a glass is full type of person with eveything in my life.

Good luck to all of you.