Sandy what you posted is awesome........I am on the chair with Aimee...Clapping. You just said what I was trying to say on the controversy board but could not get it out because I become TOO emotional and CANNOT FOCUS long enough to get past the WHYS? I am printing your post and keeping it on my corkie so next time I post to something controversial I can FOCUS! Thank you for steering us ALL in the right direction !

Cherry Lane