I have a question about telling my four year old son that his dad is not his real dad. I am afraid that he will get stressed out about it. My husband and i want to tell him before he goes to school in august and we are currently working on getting him adopted. and he has another half brother that he does not even know about. that is real dad had before we met. He was just my boyfriend we were never married TRUST ME!! But i was just curious as how to tell him so he does not get all stressed out about it. I know that he is only four but he is really smart for being four and i am not saying that because he is my son. But we also have to other children one with fragile x and a girl so that would be his half brother and sister so shoudl we tell him that too? Thanks for any input Misty