Thank you all for your help I don’t listen I explaind to her worker that I feel that she needs the water at bed time and I will not risk her medical health in any way no matter what enyone says. I am the one who spent the first two years of her life in the hospital with her.She won’t drink water or juice only water sometimes I can get her to drink flavored water, She also goes to shcool for only a half of a day and she brings a big boddle of water with her, I don’t like her to drink from the school bubler because of germs. I tryed to explain to her consuler that I am not making excuses for her but she has a live treatning disorder I think before she tells what I should be doing with her she should take 20 minutes out of her day and look up cah and find out more, she says I cater to her illness isn’t that what I’m to do, it just really makes me upset. Thank you for all your help everyone who left a message  Lisa