Mary - Do you have CAH? I feel you are asking a lot of Ian.... to forget about the past. Living with CAH is the pits. Unless you have it you don’t truly know. I didn’t have the surgeries, etc that many have had - but all the crap that goes with it - ultra hairiness, anxiety, precocious puberty, short stature, headaches, moodiness... surely you can’t forget all that. I think you are asking a lot of him - and anyone else who has CAH.

Ian -As far as the sex drive thing goes... I have experience as a woman with CAH .... my sex drive was through the roof before I got on meds.... when I am on a higher dose of Dex I have less of a sex drive. It’s interesting actually. Stress does factor in... depression does too - do I want to be close to someone - or just hole up by myself?

Susan A.