Ian,

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through right now.  We are praying for you.  Please vent anytime you want.  The times coming up may be hard but you will make it through.  Hang in there!  My sister just went through a divorce and she told me "the person you marry is not the same person you divorce."  I hope things remain civil and your daughter comes out of this ok.  Let us know if you need anything!  Our prayers are with you!

Blessings,

Tonia