Cindy I have a sister who is 24 and she is married and has a little boy who is about 11 months old and her husband has cheated on her with a girl that is 21 and he has even gotten her pregnant and the girl had an abortion. My sister lives with my parents and he lives with his and he does not see his son like he should and she is going to school to be a nurse and she has had to drop out due to not haveing anyoen supporting her which should be her husband. I am always helping her in anyway that I can. I feel so sorry for her its pathetic. He works as a bar tender at a local bar and this girl that he has cheated on. And this girl has the nerve to go down there every tuesday, thursday and fridays. she has even gotten a tatoo of her abortion on her ankle. I think that she is pyscho but my sister thinks that it is all her fault because her husband has put that in her head that she is why he did what he did. I think that he is a jerk and she needs to leave him but she does not. I know what you are going through and I wish that there was some way that she could realize and wake up that he is a jerk and she coudl do so much better. I wish you the best and I hope that you will keep GODS FAITH and know that you can always do better and there is someone out there that will treat you better!! GOD BLESS