had a cathader through the pelvic area while the other area was given a chance to heal. Did the surgeon discuss the need for dialators - each case is different depending on placement of anatomy. I’ve heard really positive news from those in their early 20’s. She’ll manage regardless.......I always felt the area was just a wound that they created that never healed but the surgery made me socially acceptable all the doctors and family look of relief for fixing the problem. All the smiles.

It’s ok ..it’s for the best